Capturing how global crises shift our collective desire toward more traditional, sincere ways of meeting.
The concept of "Slow Love" draws parallels to a "Jane Austenesque courtship," where physical barriers during the pandemic forced people to communicate longer online before meeting in person. This forced slowing of the dating process became the central thesis for the podcast.
Portolan frequently bridges her research with the arts, appearing at events like the Breaking Ground Symposium and Raising the Bar at the Belvoir St Theatre to discuss reclaiming narratives in the arts and media. Key Themes Explored
The "film event" framework also illuminates Portolan’s critique of temporality in modern love. Contemporary dating apps have accelerated the process of judgment—a swipe left or right occurs in under a second. In contrast, a film event demands two hours of undivided attention. Similarly, the Slow Love podcast refuses the dopamine hit of the five-minute dating tip. Instead, Portolan asks her audience to sit with the mundane and the miraculous: the slow burn of friendship turning into romance, the labor of repairing trust after betrayal, or the quiet dignity of conscious uncoupling. If this were a film, it would be Terrence Malick meets Nora Ephron—ethereal, philosophical, yet grounded in the tactile reality of shared meals and hand-holding. The pacing would be deliberate, challenging the viewer’s expectation for constant plot twists. In this way, the Slow Love film event would not be a romantic comedy; it would be a slow cinema of the heart, where the plot is the gradual erosion of ego.
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